Real Deal


She is everything to me. The way I look at her, the way she looked at me, her sweet nothings when I feel down. We text, chat, cuddle and do every adults has done. Yes. We did it. Every single thing that I’m with her seems a lifetime. We are on our second year now and still counting.. The problem is, I’m from Ilocos she’s from Pasig.

 

We only did EVERYTHING in text. E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G….I don’t know how to get through but I love her and everytime I ask her if she did, I can’t feel any sincerity..Is it just because we’re not into the REAL world or am I just paranoid?

68 thoughts on “Real Deal

  1. hindi real yun… niloloko mo lang ang sarili mo.. (di para sayo yan sows ha. reaction ko lang yan..)

    and one thing WHAT IS REALITY FOR YOU?
    HOW CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHOM YOU DIDN’T EVEN SEE, YOU DIDN’T EVEN TOUCH?

    I KNOW LOVING SOMEONE IS WHEN YOU CAN ACCEPT HIM OR HER.

    KAYA MO BA SIYANG MAHALIN KUNG NAKITA MO SIYA NG PERSONAL TAS PANGIIT PALA?
    TAZ MABAHO PALA HININGA?

    HMMPPP..

    yung katabi, kasama, lagi mo ngang nakikita hindi mo magawang mahalin yun pa kayang katext mo lang.
    And don’t tell me na nagawa niyo na yung EVERYTHING.
    LOKOHIN NYO LELANG NYONG PANOT… TOINKS KA…

    • easy lng bka hnd na bumalek ung taong ng email nyan sken..ang puso mo, ang puso mo..hehe sows…😆

      pssst toooot tooooot, basahin mo at pagnilay-nilayan ah..makinig ka ky shynyrd, mkhang dame nang experience nyan eh.. $,$

  2. ei sows, ^_^ thanks for visitin’ my page… no worries! u can visit and comment anytime🙂

    Intriguing naman ung ‘Real Deal’ na yan! Hahahaha! sounds family… I can sympathize, if u permit my speech…🙂 it is a case when you can’t understand, it’s like all mad feelings and so you doubt its genuiness; especially that of no physical interaction… Like the quote..’since Not seeing thus Not believing’…indeed a doubtful point…

    And so you rattled for logic and demand reasons from factual evidences in a sense and yet it just boggled you the more…

    Hahahahaha! 🙂

    Why is it that you “Can’t feel any sincerity’??? Maybe coz you observed her reaction is similar to all, to any of her guy or girl acquaints/friends… like she is sweet to evryone in a sense…

    Yet…be very quiet and listen to your heart… no ‘human’ invented logic… yet that of God’ way of wisdom of hearts… a revelation of sweetest caring…

    God blesses us all!…

    ^_^

  3. Hahahaha, ayt, can be facets pla hah, the above is but a face, the other version can be purely teenage raging’ romances and spelled as Nada…

  4. Wahh lalaki ka pala sows (echo ko lang sinabi nila kasi ganun din ang nalaman ko dito sa post mo)

    mag set ka ng date tapos magkita kayo. Mas maganda padin talaga kung makikilala mo sya hindi yung TL (txt lovers) lang kayo.

    • for the nth time, hnd po ako guy…feeling deejay ako kya ung ng email po saken sinalaysay ko lng ung kwnto nia..

      PARA PO SA LAHAT, PAKI BASA UNG “ANG NAGLUTO” jan sa side para makuha nio po ang ibig kong sabihin…

      SALAMAT PO!

  5. weeeeee… nakarelate naman ako. haha^^ galing ako sa blog ni Leon… usapang love at pagkalalaki ni Sows, pagkadapo ko rito usapang love din… hehe^^

    madaling sabihin na mahal mo ang isang tao, maaaring mahulog ang luob sa isang tao kahit di mo pa nakikita… ang pag-ibig, pag-asam na may magmamahal sa iyo kahit sa text o chat, umaasa kang totoo.

    basta, alam ko nararamdaman nung girl… baliktad kasi tayo ng sitwasyon eh.🙂

  6. cant feel the sincerity because most of the times we validate the person’s emotions through his/her facial expressions and body language… eh kung textmate lang di mo talaga alam kung ano nga ba talaga kuya!

    Anyway, savor the moments, take risks but make sure to face the consequences… mukhang infatuation lang naman yan eh so madali lang maka get over kung di man maging successful ang relationship (anong advice eto walang kwenta hehe)

    I mean there’s no harm in going on on what makes them happy as long as nasa tama pa rin ang ginagawa ^__^

  7. i entered that kind of relationship (sa text lang) when i was still recovering from a very bad relationship. tsk. tsk. and it didn’t work out because at the first place, i’m not serious. i just want to forget the past. tsk. tsk. parang pinaglaruan ko lang din siya. masama ba ako?

    i don’t know if what you’re feeling towards the girl can be called LOVE. you haven’t seen her, right? why did you fell inlove with her?\

    —–> habang maaga pa, stop this. this won’t go any far. in the end, ba ikaw lang ang masaktan. at saka baka may asawa na yun. LOL.

  8. ahahaha. i agree with shea. di REAL yun. iba kasi yung you’re together and you see each other sa you’re together sa fantasy land. hehehe. I mean, diba? how could you say nga naman na you’re in love with someone you did not even spend sometime with? huwaw. kahimalaan yata yun. hehehehe.

  9. i believe its real. what you are feeling is *awesome* real. its weird. sige, awayin niyo na akong lahat but i believe you can fall in love with something surreal. something that is not seen. something like air. something from what is beyond that wall.

    you can fall in love with a voice and search for her all over the land. you can fall in love with someone who saved you while your eyes were covered.

    yes YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE.

    you can fall in love with someone on the internet. with someone who is a text away.

    you may have not had physical contact with this certain person.. but i believe you can fall in love. but i do want to differentiate the difference of the ‘love level’ you are feeling with someone that is palpable. that you have known. that you have seen eye to eye.

    i want to stress that ‘level’ of love you are feeling..

    and to all who commented that ‘that IS not real’..

    how’d you f*ing know?

    (of course, hindi ako nakikipag-away. yay.)

  10. so meaning kuya ax, even people in blogosphere can have malicious intents towards each other? like having something na “nagustuhan” nila for that person and eventually feeling nila inlove na cla cuz of that qualities alone?

  11. Here’s my take on the situation.. Mr. Toot toot may have only seen the thoughts of this girl on sms that’s why, maybe, he falls inlove with her. Yup. I do believe that we can fall inlove with a person even if we cnt see them. Given. But the bitter truth remains that wat the two of you is having is just a feighning of everything. You texted each other with sweet nothings, howd you know that ur the only recipient of such? Maybe you can set up a day or two for an EB..just to confirm all the feelings
    you’ve had for each other were not just a dream..

    • How I wish I could lend you the writings of Griffin.. That would be the best example of loving someone who does not exist.. And Griffin was not just a fiction character. Yes, Griffin was mentally impaired. Probably, he is a bipolar.. I have his collections of letters to Sabine. And I also have Sabine’s collections of letter to Griffin.

      They’ve managed to form a connection through time and space, but also formed madness.

      That is one of the best love stories I have read.

      Could you not fret if you love someone who is not there?

      • kuya nmn, with the way u narrated it, i think their inlove with a supposedly person existing in his/her world..wla sa katinuan kumbaga.. dat they believed do exist..

        un..
        but id lyk to read those writings for me to made a jumpacked comment/s!
        haha

  12. well in that sense, i could not attest to that. but wat im implying is a personal belief. and pls dont get me wrong im not taking sides either..its just dat loving perse, as u hav said, shouldnt be having any rules but just love the person cuz u fil it.. but the intensity might be diff..maybe u juz luv the person’s ways, how to interact or how his cerebrum functions..

    ang dame kong cnbi..individual differences lng nmn tlg ang sagot eh..hehe..

    kuya ax, ur affected tlg..bkt kya? teka peram ako nung buks n yan, mkhang interesting ah! panu ba?😆

  13. ang taong umiibig ay tulad ng isang manlilikha na kayang gawin ang sariling mundo na walang ibang tao kungdi siya at ang kaniyang minamahal. lahat sila ay binubuo sa kaniyang imahinasyon…ok wirdo nga nguni’t doon siya masaya at maligaya.

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